Tuning into Love - 015 'Making Space'

I often sit and wonder how I got to be a mother of three. I often sit and wonder how I got these five seconds free to sit and wonder about how I got to be a mother of three!....and yet within it all is the beauty of finding a 'space' to enjoy a moment of 'wonder'.

The work I do as a Holistic Therapist brings with it a broad spectrum of experiences, and I meet a wide range of people too which is I feel a big reason for why I continue to do what I do. My work involves helping people get what they 'want' out of life. Maybe its been a pregnancy, maybe a romance, or just to have more time and less worries, but it has all been about 'making spaces' for that energy. The invitation has to be sent out there with the integrity of intention that you'll be available and provide a space for that energy to arrive and visit and become part of your life. Without that intention your 'wanting' just sits inside you, as a unfulfilled desire, and the wanting may manifest other things that you didn't expect, ie: wanting to be 'rich and successful' without assigning the time to complete tasks will just end in exhaustion and overwhelm.

But how does 'making spaces' work? Below is a very brief summary of some of the suggestions I've made that have brought successful outcomes for clients (and me too):

• When desiring a pregnancy focus on the new life you will produce, the love you will show to, and share with, the child, and the involvement of your circle of friends and family with that energy of the child to be. Make a space in your schedules to dedicate to the new life you wish to include in your own. This symbolic gesture will have profound effect on how you view your life...as sometimes we are so busy 'getting ready to be parents' that we lose sight of the most important thing our children will want...our time.We work, save, work, pay off debts, work, socialise, work. And then we wonder why we won't conceive? or why a pregnancy fails to take...Even if you have experienced the heartache of that loss you can mend and repair the energy surrounding you and your partner. Spend time doing the kinds of things you feel a child would enjoy. Gardening, walking, playing, talking, reading, singing, dancing, daydreaming...all the stuff you really want to do yourself ;)

• When desiring romance, fill your heart with Love for someone. Imagine the contentment of intimate comfort with a person you trust, and feel the affection for that person grow and bloom within you. Do not request it to be reciprocated yet, just enjoy the beauty of 'feeling love' for someone. Again, make a space in your schedule for the energy of the relationship to be invited in. Give yourself a list of things you would love to do with a friend. Dinner, movies, walks in the park or on the beach, adventure weekends ! who knows where it may lead...

• When desiring a calmer Mind and a reduction in the overwhelm of Life, focus upon the tasks you can do in the next few hours. Nothing more. Make space for one task to be given your full attention...this could just mean you get the washing up done, but it does not matter what the task is, as long as you give it the space in your life and give it your full attention. Imagine yourself walking a stairway and each step represents both a task completed and the attainment of progression towards the goal. And then of course follow through on this by shoving everything else aside and completing one thing. The relief will be a revelation. I feel that physically 'making space' helps enormously with 'work and success' wants. Have a look around at all that you possess right now and figure out just how much you 'have' that you don't even use or want...it put a whole new perspective on feeling 'without' something.

Life is Space and Time, and everything occurs in Perfect Timing and occurs perfectly within the right space to manifest.

"I tune into Love by creating a space for it to sit with me"
"I invite Love into my home, my life and my heart"